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There is an uneasy air circulating around New York’s private and public schools as Bravo’s NYC Prep premieres on Tuesday, June 23. While the show focuses on the lives of PC, Kelli, Jessie, Sebastian, Camille, and Taylor, and not on their schools, some viewers are clearly not making that distinction. NYC private schools have often been stereotyped as “elite,” “snobbish,” “out of touch,” and “arrogant,” and for some viewers of the preview episodes, NYC Prep confirms the stereotypes.

Do NYC private schools students live in segregated worlds that are out of touch with the lives of their counterparts at NYC public schools? If, and how, does the NYC private school community (teachers, administrators, staff, parents, students, etc.) acknowledge and discuss issues of equity, privilege, and affluence? Does the NYC private school community only care about protecting its image? Should NYC private schools care about their neighbors at NYC public schools, and, if so, why and how?

Certainly, we believe that the NYC private school community is not just “self-absorbed” and most NYC private school students do not only engage community service because it looks good on their college applications. Many schools, along with the community as a whole, have a long history and tradition of local, national, and international community service. The community embodies the ideal that with privilege and affluence, comes tremendous responsibilities, particularly in our local NYC community.

Partnerships Between NYC Private and Public Schools

In addition, there are many strong partnerships between NYC private and public schools. One example is the Green Schools Alliance, which includes a wonderful private-public partnership between NYC private and public schools. A second example is Border Crossers, an organization which “brings together young students from segregated neighborhoods in New York City to explore issues of discrimination, inequality, and social justice, and to develop student leadership toward lasting social change.”

We believe in Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s words (1968): “Through our scientific and technological genius, we have made of this world a neighborhood and yet we have not had the ethical commitment to make of it a brotherhood. But somehow, and in some way, we have got to do this. We must all learn to live together as brothers or we will all perish together as fools. We are tied together in the single garment of destiny, caught in an inescapable network of mutuality. And whatever affects one directly affects all indirectly.”

The NYC Private Schools Blog, DonorsChoose.org, & Bravo’s NYC Prep

Its time to stop talking the talk though. Now, we must walk the walk. The NYC Private Schools Blog has partnered with DonorsChoose.org to support NYC public schools. Our first campaign will begin on Tuesday, June 23 when Bravo’s NYC Prep premieres and will run through the first season of the show.

DonorsChoose.org, a nonprofit website, is a simple way to provide students with the books, technology, and supplies that they need to learn. At DonorsChoose.org, innovative and committed teachers propose ideas for small projects, such as “Magical Math Centers” ($200) or “Big Book Bonanza” ($400) or “The Case of the Vanishing Pencils” ($284). Individuals around the nation can search student projects by areas of interest, learn about classroom needs, and choose to fund the project idea they find most compelling. Donors receive a feedback package of photographs, student thank-you notes, a teacher impact letter, and an expenditure report showing that their gift was spent as directed. Since being founded by a high school teacher (Charles Best) in 2000, DonorsChoose.org has delivered more than $35 million in resources to over 2.2 million students across the country.

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We invite you to walk with us. We know there are many competing demands for your attention and donations in a tough economy, which include your child’s private school itself, or other equally important local, national, and international causes. If you believe though that NYC private and public schools are “caught in an inescapable network of mutuality. And whatever affects one directly affects all indirectly,” then we look forward to our journey together.

Here is How Our First Campaign Works:

1) Visit our NYC Private Schools Blog Giving Page on the DonorsChoose.org site, which has projects organized by borough (Manhattan, Brooklyn, Bronx, Queens, and Staten Island), then
2) Choose a project and select how much you would like to donate.

It is really that simple. The most difficult part might be selecting which of the many terrific projects to fund.

Some parents have asked if there any additional steps that they could take on this campaign, besides donating. One suggestion is to involve your children in this process and engage them in this learning opportunity through discussion and reflection. If you choose to do so, we (and other families) certainly would be interested in learning about why and how your family decided on which project to donate. How did you talk to your children about this? Did you discuss issues of equity, privilege, and affluence? Did the subject of race or class come up? Did you incorporate donating into a discussion about money (1/4 to save, 1/4 to spend, 1/4 to invest, 1/4 for charity)? Did your child have any creative ways to raise money to donate? Did you partner with any other families at your child’s school?

Optional Next Steps

1) Please use our “Contact Us” page to tell us you have donated, so we can systematically track the generosity of the NYC private schools community. We will respond to your email by asking whether you would like to be acknowledged and listed on our “Donors Page.” You may choose to have us publish your name (or you can remain anonymous), and your affiliation (private school, consulting organization, local business, unaffiliated, etc.) on our Donors Page.

2) If you have taken an additional step by involving your children and family and would like to be featured on our “Donor Stories Page,” then also use our “Contact Us” page. After your initial story, we will re-contact you in a few weeks to follow-up after your family receives the thank you notes and pictures from the teachers and students.

3) If there are specific classroom projects in your borough or a public school in your neighborhood or a particular area (e.g., arts, literacy, science, etc.) that you would like us to include on our Giving Page, please “Contact Us” to let us know.

Contacts

The NYC Private Schools Blog contacts for this project are Dr. Shamir Khan and Ms. Saubirah Hack. Ms. Hack is an undergraduate intern with our blog and a former intern at DonorsChoose.org. The DonorsChoose.org contact for this project is Ms. Daphra Holder, who coincidentally is an alumna of The Nightingale-Bamford School.


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Questions and Answers About Bravo’s NYC Prep

by NYC Private Schools on June 13, 2009

The spotlight will soon shine again on NY private and public schools when Bravo’s NYC Prep premieres on Tuesday, June 23 at 10pm.

Although Bravo has not “officially” released the students names and the schools they attend, multiple sources, including The New York Post, have released the information.

Here is the cast, the schools they attend, and some new info. from BravoTV.com:

Camille Hughes, 17, a junior at Nightingale-Bamford School on the Upper East Side

The scoop: Getting into the right college is a must for Camille, who can be found studying for exams and preparing for the SATs. But it’s not all about getting into Harvard for her. She makes time to hang out with friends, go to upscale restaurants, and shop at high-end stores. Quick-witted Camille might come off as purely prim and proper, but she also likes to let loose at parties and clubs.
Camille says: “In Manhattan gossip flies really, really quickly.”
Fun fact: When it comes to crushes, she likes the “bad boy thing.”

Peter “PC” Peterson, 18, a senior at The Dwight School on the Upper West Side

The scoop: PC is not your average teenager. He’s one of the most popular kids on the scene and a frequent attendee of the city’s hottest parties. Jaded and privileged, PC runs with a fast-paced crowd and lives in a world of wealth, women, and exclusivity. But college is approaching, and it’s time to see if there’s more to life. PC is also Jessie’s ex, so stay tuned to see if their complicated relationship will cause some friction.
PC says: “Following the crowd is the worst thing you can do.”
Fun fact: PC traveled to the Sudan to do community service.

Jessie Leavitt, 17, a senior at The Dwight School on the Upper West Side

The scoop: The show’s resident style maven, Jessie is determined to pursue a career in fashion PR. Not only is she applying to FIT, she’s taken on demanding internships with high-end designers. Outspoken Jessie also loves to throw parties, especially for charitable organizations. Her focus is “Operation Smile” and she’s set on raising money for the cause using her public relations know-how and fabulous NYC connections.
Jessie says: “My favorite places to go out are unknown. That’s why they’re my favorite.”
Fun Fact: Jessie’s favorite movie is “Pretty Woman.”

Kelli Tomashoff, 17, a junior at Birch Wathen Lenox on the Upper East Side

The scoop: A newbie to the NYC Private School scene Kelli recently moved from the Hamptons to the Upper East Side. She describes herself as independent, and lives with her brother in an NYC apartment as her parents spend the majority of their time in Long Island. Kelli’s life isn’t all about high-end restaurants, drivers, and parties. She’s an aspiring singer who’s passionate about a career in music.
Kelli says: “Kids are kids. Kids are the same everywhere. Girls can be bitchy.”
Fun fact: Kelli likes to shop at the store she works at in Westhampton. She gets a 20% discount!

Sebastian Oppenheim, 16, a sophomore at the Ross School in East Hampton

The scoop: Sebastian is the ladies man of the group. When he’s not meeting New York’s hottest girls, he’s playing sports or participating on his school’s debate team. He’s also a certified lifeguard and a member of the school newspaper. Sebastian has a way with women, and he’s “more into hooking up than dating,” so get ready to see his pick-up artistry in action.
Sebastian says: “I really feel like New York City shapes kids and teens a lot faster.”
Fun fact: Sebastian’s mom cuts his hair!

Taylor DiGiovanni, 15, a sophomore at Stuyvesant High School in Battery Park City

The scoop: Sophomore Taylor has a lot on her plate for a 15-year-old. She juggles an intense afterschool schedule of gymnastics, pre-professional dance, and rigorous academics. But Taylor has more on her mind than extra-curricular activities. She’s the only public school attendee of the bunch. Fitting in with the private school crowd isn’t always easy, but Taylor doesn’t mind crashing parties. She’s also said she’s “no good at relationships” so prepare to see some boy drama along the way.
Taylor says: “It takes a lot to survive in a New York City High School… you need to know who to get on your good side and who to not to get on your bad side.”
Fun fact: Taylor’s celeb crush is Nick Jonas!

As a reminder, while the show’s title is NYC Prep, none of the schools allowed filming and they are not identified by name on the show. The focus of the show is on the students’ lives, not the schools themselves.

Here are the preview specials for the show:

As a parent-focused blog, we highlight one of the parent reactions from the BravoTV.com Message Boards by AZKookala:

As a parent I say this show is a crime against youth.
They are capitalizing on dysfunctional children.
The parents I saw seem to have wanted the kids, but not the inconvenience that comes with them; untill they produce something of value. Those bio-donors and baby carriers are beneath the filth of my pond. They have money? So what.
If you have kids you raise them to adulthood and are responsible for them untill they are adults. The lives these so called “parents” live has allowed their children to be raised self absorbed teens, leading destructive lives and called adults a few years early because the responsible parties don’t want to bother with the rest of the raising them to adulthood part.
As a parent I wonder “Is this why Paris turned out so wrong?”

What shocks me more is “Professionals from Bravo” had to have filmed this! If the trailor suggestions are true “Professionals From Bravo” watched teens consume alchohol until oblivion, do unknown drugs and filmed closed doors of sexual encounters. How sick is that?
Does Bravo condone underage consumption, teen drug use and implied teen sex?

Bravo is BLOCKED!!!!

There have been many questions about and reactions to the show across the internet and in the halls of NYC Private Schools, including: What are the motivations of these students and their families to participate in this show? How are the students and administrators from the schools these students attend responding to the show? How are the cast members reacting to the comments about them, particularly the negative ones? How might this show impact the reputation of NYC Private Schools, already perceived as “elite”? How representative are these students of NYC Private School students? How might this decision by the students’ parents to give consent to participate now affect the students’ lives later? How did the show deal with underage drinking? What role should/do parents play in these teenagers’ lives? How do we morally, ethically, and legally think about parental “neglect”? How will this show be received by audiences given the current state of the economy?…………

Here are few possible answers:
From amNew York:

“I don’t worry. I thought it would be a great learning experience for her … She could write about it for a college essay,” said Elise, the mother of Kelli Tomashoff, who thinks the show will help the 17-year-old’s singing career.

Diana Kirschner, a Manhattan psychologist, disagreed. “It’s scary. Teenagers are attuned to feedback from the outside world. They become troubled from this kind of exposure.”

For “NYC Prep,” producers spent several months following the 15- to 18-year-olds as they partied, shopped and dined in tony spots. Educators did not grant permission to film at the schools, and really, little of brat pack’s lives seem to involve academics.

The teens are shown drinking what appears to be champagne. Executive producer Scott Stone said they only were served alcohol in countries where it is legal. Still, the show’s stars talk about their cache of fake IDs, a potential landmine for getting into a good college.

“It could be detrimental and backfire,” said Sheri Mural, a private college admissions consultant. “Top schools have many well-qualified candidates.”

During a recent sneak peek of the show, however, the students expressed no regrets.

“I think all of us could care less what people say about us,” said Taylor DiGiovanni, a Stuyvesant High School sophomore and the show’ lone public-school student.

From The Wrap.com:

“The obsession to be on TV is like the obsession to use drugs and alcohol,” Miami psychologist Dr. Jamie Huysman told TheWrap. “It’s just a symptom of a much deeper emotional problem, and the sufferer’s malaise infects the entire family.”

Huysman, who has a special practice in which he treats victims of reality shows and their families, says he has treated over 800 people since he founded AfterTVCare in 1992.

“Reality shows open wounds which no one can suture, so after your appearance, you’re left to bleed to death,” he said. “In effect, everyone who appears is thrown out of the lifeboat when their segment ends. “For everyone who appears — winners and losers alike — the lights go down, clinical issues remain.

From Woman Around Town, who attended a preview for the first episode at the Paley Center for Media:

When someone in the audience asked whether, given the fact that much of the country is suffering financially, the producers were worried about a backlash, Andy Cohen shrugged off any such concerns. “Bravo is about presenting a world of fashion, food and culture. We are not CNN and we’re not `Flip This Trailer.’ That’s not what sells.”

For those of you interested in NY State laws regarding alcohol, The New York State Liquor Authority has a brochure entitled:“Alcohol and Your Child, Information Every Parent Should Know”

Certainly, we invite your reactions, questions, and answers in our comments section.


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The Elite Speak: Meet the Cast of Bravo’s NYC Prep

May 23, 2009

As we reported in April, Bravo’s NYC Prep will premiere on Tuesday, June 16 at 11 p.m. ET/PT and will move to its regular timeslot on Tuesday, June 23 at 10 p.m. ET/PT.
On Monday, June 1st from 6:30-8:00pm, there will be a sneak peek at the premiere episode of NYC Prep at The Paley Center [...]

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